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It is not impossible to make a narcissistic person to be jealous. We all know that narcissist love to be the center of attention and to be glorified for their achievements and you can beat them at their own game by making them jealous.
The best way to make a narcissist really jealous is to be more successful than them. A narcissist loves to worship what he/she has accomplished in life, and when you can show you have all it takes to be better than them, they will become envious of you.
A narcissist is drawn to people of their strength and status, which makes them ignore those beneath them.
Being better and more improved than your narcissistic friend or partner can make them feel insecure about themselves. Which will make them see you as a threat and someone they have to stalk on.
Also, a narcissist loves the spotlight, but showing you don’t need them makes them jealous.
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Can you manipulate a narcissist?
Yes! You can manipulate a narcissist. However, they are specialist in belittling people and also making them feel bad about themselves. But when you trust in who you are and know what you want, a narcissist doesn’t stand a chance against you.
By being better, giving them less of the attention they need, and putting yourself first, you can be able to beat a narcissist at their own game.
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How to make a narcissist jealous
There are ways you can make a narcissist jealous which is not impossible. A narcissist might seem harder to convince but they are all humans with a heart. And the moment their ego is down, they are vulnerable.
In this article, you will learn the ways you can make a narcissist jealous of you and make them fight to be you;
1. Hang out with their friends
Making a narcissist jealous you need to penetrate what they love and who they love being around. Hanging out with their friends will not only make them jealous of you but also start comparing their lifestyle to their friends. Saying to themselves, what does he have that I don’t?
A narcissist loves to appear the best and the most talked about in the room because of their self-admiration. Hanging out with a narcissist’s friend is one of the best ways to make them jealous and get them thinking about you. And you know what it means for a narcissist to have you on their mind right?
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2. Give less attention to them and more to others
To make a narcissist jealous you need to destroy their ego, and one way to do that is to give them little or no attention. A narcissist enjoys it when people talk about them, especially their achievements. What better way to do this than by letting them know you don’t care about them.
When you give people more attention, especially admiring and spending time with them, as you should do for a narcissist; they become jealous and start wanting attention back.
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3. Go out dressing attractively
To make a narcissist jealous you need to look your best, but not for them. dressing attractively, maybe on dates with someone who might be a threat to a narcissist can be a way to pull their legs.
Remember a narcissist wants everything good for themselves and when you are not giving them attention or representing them, they will begin to develop jealousy.
Dressing to impress someone else can attract a narcissist and make them envious of the person you’re trying to wow.
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4. Let them think you’re into them
A narcissist loves to be in charge, but this is where you have to flip the script. Make a narcissist jealous by letting them think you are interested in them.
When doing this, you have to be emotionally conscious and aware of your environment; that’s because a narcissist likes to use your emotions and the things you love to get to you.
You have to play the game too by letting them think you’re into them, and at the last minute, you pull out. And the best approach to achieve this is by politely declining their offers, including their dinner date invitations.
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5. Be busy enough for them
Being available doesn’t create importance to people and in this case to make a narcissist jealous you need to show them you’re not always available.
A narcissist doesn’t like it when they are rejected by people. They always want to feel accepted.
In this situation, you’re going to demonstrate to them that you don’t have time. You’re busy with work and other personal matters, which may upset them and make them jealous because you’re prioritizing someone or something else.
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6. Talk to more successful people than them
A narcissist loves to be the best in the room and the way to get them jealous is by talking to a more successful and attractive person. They don’t like when someone gets away with what they want especially when it is someone they like and cherish.
They get envious of those people who show they are better than them and more envious of those who get away with someone they like. This method is an effective way to pull a narcissist and get them thinking of you.
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7. Show them you don’t care about them
Showing a narcissist you don’t care about them is one way to make them jealous. They begin to question their authority saying to themselves if they are not good enough. They love to admire themselves so much, ignoring those around them and making them feel inferior.
Whenever they talk about something, do not display emotions or show that you care. Whenever they want something, don’t show too much care in getting it for them. Always try to stay neutral even if you care so much.
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8. Decline their offers
A narcissist dislikes rejection and may feel threatened if the same proposal is accepted by others. They feel jealous because they are being ignored by you. However, that’s one of the things a narcissist excels at; ignoring people.
It is not everything you accept from a narcissist, in fact, you should definitely decline their best offers because that is what gets them the most. They will begin to see you as a high-value and respected individual.
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9. Prioritize your lifestyle over there
A narcissist does have in mind that they are everyone’s priorities because they believe they have achieved some form of success in their lives. But no!
You have to show them that you have your life in place first, before theirs. If they ask you for something that requires you to neglect your own responsibilities, then you have to decline. Show them that you have to put yourself first.
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10. Be more successful than them
A narcissist doesn’t like it when someone is more successful than them, especially those they are in a relationship with. They like to be ahead of people, become the best and show they are in control.
To be more successful than a narcissistic person can make them really jealous of your victories. It demonstrates your superiority, potentially stirring up envy in others.
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11. Don’t seek their validation
A narcissist enjoys it when you seek validation from them, which implies that you don’t make decisions without their approval. But this is the twist here;
If you don’t seek their validation, they begin to lose control over you and you become an alpha of your own. This approach can make a narcissistic person jealous of who you have become, making them feel they no longer have control and power over you.
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12. Become better
Being a better version of yourself is a good and most effective way to make a narcissist jealous of you and as well, fall in love with you. And because of your taste for becoming better, a narcissist admires your zeal.
You become better by working on your appearance, your relationship with people, understanding freedom and your intellect.
Having these qualities can bring more happiness and make a narcissistic person envious and threatened.
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Conclusion on how to make a narcissist jealous
In conclusion, making a narcissist jealous involves strategic actions that undermine their ego and disrupt their sense of superiority. You can effectively get under their skin by hanging out with their friends, giving them less attention, dressing attractively, and appearing interested before pulling away.
Being busy, engaging with more successful individuals, and showing indifference to their attempts for validation can further provoke jealousy. Declining their offers and prioritizing your own lifestyle over theirs reinforces your independence while achieving greater success and self-improvement solidifies your position of strength.
By following these approaches, you can turn the tables and make a narcissist long for your attention and admiration.
