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Someone who feels entitled to anything, thinks highly of themselves and disregards others is called a narcissist. If you also find a friend or a partner in this type of category who thinks so highly of himself but wants them to fall in love with you; you have come to the right place.
Dealing with a narcissist can be a problem. That’s because they don’t regard or value people as they do for themselves. They mostly associate with people on their level of influence, which could be power, money, or any form of high status.
To make a narcissist fall in love with you, well, you need to think outside of the box. Make them obsessed with you. That’s what I mean. Make them chase you: be the price.
Yes! You can make a narcissist fall in love with you just by beating them at their own game.
But wait!
Can a narcissist truly love someone?
Yes, a narcissist can love someone genuinely. As a matter of fact, you can make a narcissist obsessed with you.
A narcissist is a little bit picky when it comes to choosing who they want; how you can meet their standards is putting in effort to be the best. High-value individuals and people of great admiration move narcissists.
They are attracted to people of value, respect, and assertive behavior. And not those that are easily put down.
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How to make a narcissist fall in love with you
There are several proven ways you can make a narcissist fall in love with you. We all know that a narcissist can be very troublesome sometimes and challenging but you should know that with all that ego, they can easily fall in love with someone they like.
Here are the ways to make a narcissistic person fall in love;
1. See yourself as a high-value
If there is something a narcissist loves more is to be in competition. Someone who will challenge them.A narcissist thinks highly of themselves and is deeply attracted to individuals who see themselves as high-value individuals.
To become a high-value individual you must see yourself as one. Set your standards high and never settle for less. If there is something a narcissist ignores, it’s people who they consider to have no value, and who can easily be intimidated.
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2. Play hard to get
People who play ‘hard to get’ are usually the most attractive and those are the people a narcissist is drawn to. Playing hard to get means not accepting everything or anyone. It also means not being too available for people.
A narcissist is drawn to highly attractive people and those are the most talked about. Sometimes they might not show it but when they see what they want, they definitely go for it.
3. Display your ambitious qualities
Showing your attractive traits could definitely be your hard-working skill and a narcissist does fall in love with them. A narcissist cares only about themselves but also cares about those who are ambitious and set goals. To make a narcissist fall for you, displaying your ambitious qualities can be the best way to draw them nearer to you and get them obsessed.
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4. Dress to impress
The best dressed in the room are usually the most talked about. To make a narcissist fall in love you need to look your best, be presentable, and shine the brightest.
You may have noticed that those who are the most dressed up usually gravitate towards the most important people in the room or even a narcissist. There is a lot of influence when you dress your best especially in a beautiful red dress or in a sharp tuxedo suit. With this, you will be able to grab the attention of a narcissist and make them fall in love with you by dressing your best.
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5. Showcase your talents
People with impressive gifts usually make a narcissist fall in love with them. People with impressive thinking skills and resource management can be a great help to narcissists because they seek those who can have a positive impact on their lives.
With your skillset, a narcissist can easily find interest and value in you. In other words, showcasing your skills can make a narcissist fall deeply in love with you.
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6. Always be in control
There is nothing more a narcissist love than the people in charge. People who know what they want and cannot compromise for anything in the world that is who a narcissist falls in love with.
When you show that you know what you want and stand by it, you put a narcissist in their place. Challenging them that you don’t care about what they say or do, but you rather go for what you want.
This is an attractive trait that pulls the ego of a narcissist who is full of themselves. Being in control is surely a way to make a narcissist fall in love with you.
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7. Be decisive with your actions
Narcissist are who they are because they think so highly of themselves and disregard others. And to attract them you need to exhibit the same traits but special. You must not be like the narcissist just by closing the doors of everyone around you and thinking little of them. But you can be better in your actions and the kind of decisions you make.
Making quality decisions can be so attractive. When I refer to ‘quality’, I mean making decisions that require careful thought and consideration of your desires, rather than hasty or careless choices.
They love people who differentiate themselves from others just by saying no to certain things. Being a decision-maker can make a narcissist fall in love with you and make them think so highly of you.
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8. Show them you’re busy
Being too available can reduce your value as a person to a narcissist making them see you as ‘average’ and the way they perceive others. Let us say you get the chance to connect with a narcissist, always be the one to end things at the last minute.
Don’t always be the one who is free and available to pick up their calls. Sometimes try to miss the calls, and cancel the plans; showing them that you have something you’re doing.
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9. Let them come to you
Always remember, to make a narcissist fall in love with you, you have to think highly of yourself. This means you are the prize.
You need to let them know that you are the one always calling the shots here and not them. This also means you shouldn’t throw them complimentary words that might flatter them. But let them be the ones to adore your God’s created gift and beauty. This will make a narcissist fall in love with you.
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10. Be assertive
Being assertive is the work of an Alpha male/female. They are deeply admired and drawn to by high-value people and also a narcissist. They play a role by being very confident in what they do and say, which differentiates them from the average person or mediocre.
People who show their confidence are always seen to be risk-takers and have great value for themselves; that is what a narcissist loves the most.
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11. Challenge them
A narcissist loves people who challenge them and want to compete with them. They love it when people put them in their place and not always accepting what they say or do.
When a narcissist sees what they like, they go for it. And those that challenge them or compete with them are the ones that attract them.
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12. Show your mysterious personality
Mysterious people are always the most talked about. Whether you dress mysteriously to attract or your personality is intriguing and not fully revealed, it can be a way to make a narcissist fall in love with you.
Being mysterious is a great way to make a narcissist drawn closer to you, That’s because you captivate them with your exceptional qualities, allowing them the space to contemplate your presence.
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13. Listen and don’t ask many questions
When you’re a great listener, you make a narcissistic person see you as someone they can talk to. But when you ask a lot, especially about what they’re saying, they get bored by your presence and see themselves as the prize and people in control.
Always listen and don’t ask questions. Whatever you have to say, save it for later. Don’t bore them with your many questions, instead listen and enjoy their presence.
They will see you differently and as a valuable lover.
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14. Make them change
‘Change’ is something that feels special to anyone, and if you can get a narcissist to change, then the spotlight is all yours to take. Whoever you can make ‘change’ cannot easily forget you, whether you change their lives by helping them in one way or another.
When you ‘change’ someone you definitely leave a mark there. They cannot forget what has made them who/what they are now. Changing a narcissist can cause them to develop a strong attachment that is not easily forgotten or erased.
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Final thoughts on making a narcissist fall in love with you
To make a narcissist fall in love with you, you need to exhibit the qualities that challenge and intrigue them.
First, see yourself as a high-value individual with high standards, as narcissists are attracted to those who perceive themselves as valuable. Playing hard to get, displaying ambition, dressing to impress, and showcasing your talents will draw a narcissist’s attention.
Additionally, maintaining control, being decisive, and staying busy enhances your allure, as narcissists respect assertiveness and independence. Emphasize your mysterious personality, listen without overwhelming them with questions, and aim to positively influence their behavior, as making a narcissist change can cement a strong attachment.
