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For a narcissist to humbly respect you, means that you are now the price. If you are living with a narcissist, there is a high probability that you are being looked down on or simply disrespected.

We all know that dealing with someone with a narcissistic disorder can be a lot and also challenging in friendships and relationships. They are proud and highly boastful of themselves; this gives them the edge to take advantage of people’s will and make them lose their self-esteem.

It is highly possible to make a narcissist respect you just by following every tip of this blog.

Yes, I have dealt with a narcissistic partner and I was able to see myself through because I knew how to handle challenges and love myself more. And I knew that if I don’t get out quickly it will cause more harm than good to my well-being. I knew I was the price and didn’t want to compromise my happiness just to feel humiliated and satisfy their ego.

How to make a narcissist respect you

A narcissist doesn’t just respect anyone because of their egoistic trait, but they only respect the few who know how to put them in their place. Yes, you reading this article, can also make a narcissistic friend or partner respect you. It is not hard at all. I will guide you on how you can earn their respect and be perceived as a high-value individual.

Here is how to make a narcissist respect you;

1. Loving yourself

A narcissist takes advantage of insecure people. people who do not have self-love and charisma. They know how to manipulate without any love for themselves to do their bidding.

But the moment you show how much you love yourself and do not do anything that is against your joy and happiness; then a narcissist will respect you. Although they try as much as they can to bend you out of your will, but they will respect the fact that you are self-aware and have boundaries for yourself.

Loving yourself can make a narcissistic person respect you.

2. Knowing your worth

When you know your worth and what you stand for, a narcissist will have no choice but to respect you. They may not agree with your opinion, but they have no choice but to accept it because they cannot manipulate someone who knows what they want and how to manage their own issues.

Knowing your worth can bring value and respect to you. It shows people that you can be decisive and courageous to take your steps. Definitely, a narcissist cannot stand you because they love to have full control and power.

3. Becoming decisive with your words and actions

People who don’t know what they want and how to handle decisions can easily be manipulated by a narcissist. Even in relationships, a narcissist takes control and overpower their partners because they don’t know how to say Yes or No and don’t have high self-esteem. In other words, they cannot speak for themselves.

But people who know how to make decisions for themselves and never compromise their happiness for others are always respected even by a narcissist.

4. Staying independent

Being independent means you’re not afraid to solve your problems and you’re a risk taker. Narcissists are always afraid of people who compete with them because they put them under pressure. They start to fear you as soon as they see you, partly because they have no control over you.

Independent people are always bosses and decision-makers, they thrive being alone, and that is definitely what a narcissist doesn’t want. Being independent can bring about respect and make a narcissist value you.

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5. Hanging out with high-value individuals

Hanging out with people of great value and well-respected in society can make a narcissist jealous and also respect you. Remember that a narcissist always feels that they are above everyone and use that to belittle people. But the moment you shine your light by sticking around with people who are also respected, they will be compelled to respect you for holding such a position.

6. Putting yourself first before anything

Placing yourself first before anyone and anything can make a narcissist respect you. They might not like the idea because they want you to admire them and always worship them for their accomplishments; but when you don’t, they respect you.

Narcissists always manipulate people who do not consider their needs and wants or have no idea of who they are. But those with value always put themselves first and a narcissistic person will have respect for that.

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7. Becoming an influencer

Being an influential person in society can place you on a high pedestal and make an egoistic person respect and honor you. A narcissist only sees people with value as their equals which involves seeing yourself as a price.

They respect people who are of value to other people because they know they are no match for them in terms of their ratings. You become respected when you become valuable to yourself and to the people.

8. Setting firm boundaries

Setting your boundaries can put a narcissistic person in his/her place. It shows that you have high and optimal respect for yourself and you wouldn’t want anyone to hurt you or cross what you have set as a no-go area.

People with little or no boundaries can easily be manipulated by a narcissistic person which can bring about disrespect. Setting boundaries in your life can make a narcissist respect you.

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9. Saying “No” to them

Being a ‘Yes’ man/woman all the time can bring about disrespect and no value. people who always do the will of a narcissist and never oppose them are always looked at as puppets of a narcissist. It shows you have no rights or authority in the relationship. But when you stand against a narcissist and believe in what you want you become respected.

10. Becoming wealthy

Becoming wealthy means living a healthy lifestyle, which involves money and health. When you take care of your health you become attractive enough to gain a narcissist’s respect. When you work hard enough and stack up a lot of bags you also become respected. No one wants to be poor because it makes you unattractive. But when you have all these qualities of becoming wealthy in you, you become highly respected and valued by people.

11. Finding your happiness

When you find happiness and joy, you become someone that a narcissist will respect. But when you are all sad and dependent, a narcissist will want to seek the advantage to hurt your self-esteem and to please their ego.

Being happy is communicable, which means a narcissist can sense it when they are around you. Happiness is one thing you should never trade. People trade their joy and happiness for money, that is why you see them being used and unfulfilled. But the moment you value your happiness you become one with yourself and can gain the respect of a narcissist.

12. Challenging them

Stepping up to what you know is right can really hurt a narcissist’s ego and also make them respect and fear you. Challenging a narcissistic person is what people fear to do, but only the 1% can. They are the ones who have self-respect and do not displease themselves to please others.

A narcissist will always want you to submit to them and displease yourself. However, when you challenge them by taking the opposite approach and valuing yourself highly, they will recognize your worth.

Final thoughts

Gaining the respect of a narcissist involves demonstrating self-worth and independence. By loving yourself, knowing your value, and setting firm boundaries, you become less susceptible to their manipulative tactics. A narcissist will respect those who are decisive, self-reliant, and influential, as they challenge their need for control.

Surrounding yourself with high-value individuals and maintaining your happiness further solidify your standing. By confidently asserting yourself and not succumbing to their demands, you not only gain their respect but also reinforce your own self-worth.

In essence, respect from a narcissist is earned through self-assertion, independence, and unwavering self-respect.

As a person you are qualified to gain respect from people and deeply admired. In this world, to gain respect is no secret at all but a simple way of life.

A respected person is a leader and an influencer to other people. Notice how the masses respects an important person, this is because of the position he/she holds, the achievements, fame or whatever you call it.

In this blog we are going to talk about how you can gain respect from people in a simple way of life.

1. RESPECT YOURSELF

As an individual before you can gain respect from people, you should understand to value yourself. Respecting yourself comes in form of discipline and determination which you should invest in. If you cannot respect yourself people cannot respect you, in other words learn to invest in yourself.

2. DO NOT SAY SORRY (A LOT)

I know this is not clear enough but the principle of this is that saying “I’m sorry” a lot can psychological make you weak in the eyes of people. This could say a lot but all boils down to you losing your dignity and respect in people or your pairs.

Learn the habit of saying sorry a few times and only say sorry when you’re sorry, this will trigger respect from people.

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3. FORCE RESPECT

The act of forcing respect from people will help you not just in your position but also psychological help you build the native habits or lifestyle of a leader.

Sometimes you might have tried getting people’s attention and did not work, but the act of stepping up from your comfort zone aka shadows and working hard to show your approval will help you get affirmation from people.

This comes in form of a unique behavior from an individual who seek respect from people. In other to gain respect from people you need to create your own space and what I mean is getting your fan base that is all about your achievements and the position you hold, this will create more people attention to you. this is a rule book a lot of people don’t know yet but works like a charm.

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5. POWER

In other to gain respect you must be powerful. In the world of great and powerful mind, you cannot be feeling weak and seek for a position with authority. As an individual you need to have a direct authority and charisma in you, which will help you gain respect from people.

6. GIVE RESPECT

You must be able to learn how to give respect to people in other to be respected. Most respected and influential people today are respectful to other people. Is only when you give respect to people that’s when you gain respect, just as the saying goes “what goes around, stays around”.

7. BODY STATURE

Physically, having a good body stature can give you a programmed respect from people automatic. Girls love to see a good looking and attractive man and bullies hate to see a muscular man. In other words, having a good body stature can give you validation from people.

8. WALK DOMINANTLY

In other to seek respect from people you need to walk like a respected and attractive person. Ever seen a man or woman walked by and people stares at them in admiration, this is because they have built themselves to walk right and slowly in other to condition the minds of people to seek their validation.

9. SIT LIKE YOU’RE IN CHARGE

Every respected and influential person today obtain this position; sitting like your charge. You cannot be asking for validation from people when you are sitting like a kid, the primary way of getting people to respect you is sitting like you’re in charge.

HOW TO SIT LIKE YOU’RE IN CHARGE

SIT UPRIGHT AND CHEST OUT.
HANDS NEEDS TO BE CLOCKED TOGETHER AND LEAN ON ONE SIDE.
LEGS SHOULD BE CROSSED (Girls cross their legs little bit by the side).

10. CONSISTENT GROWTH

People love to be around a person that consistently working hard and achieving his goals. In other words, to gain respect from people you need to grow up financially, physically and also mentally. From this act people will always seek to respect and value you as a person.

CONCLUSION

As a person you can gain respect from anybody irrespective of who you are, follow these ways of gaining respect from people and you will see yourself like a boss in no time.

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