As a person you are qualified to gain respect from people and deeply admired. In this world, to gain respect is no secret at all but a simple way of life.
A respected person is a leader and an influencer to other people. Notice how the masses respects an important person, this is because of the position he/she holds, the achievements, fame or whatever you call it.
In this blog we are going to talk about how you can gain respect from people in a simple way of life.
1. RESPECT YOURSELF
As an individual before you can gain respect from people, you should understand to value yourself. Respecting yourself comes in form of discipline and determination which you should invest in. If you cannot respect yourself people cannot respect you, in other words learn to invest in yourself.
2. DO NOT SAY SORRY (A LOT)
I know this is not clear enough but the principle of this is that saying “I’m sorry” a lot can psychological make you weak in the eyes of people. This could say a lot but all boils down to you losing your dignity and respect in people or your pairs.
Learn the habit of saying sorry a few times and only say sorry when you’re sorry, this will trigger respect from people.
3. FORCE RESPECT
The act of forcing respect from people will help you not just in your position but also psychological help you build the native habits or lifestyle of a leader.
Sometimes you might have tried getting people’s attention and did not work, but the act of stepping up from your comfort zone aka shadows and working hard to show your approval will help you get affirmation from people.
4. CREATE A SOCIAL SPACE
This comes in form of a unique behavior from an individual who seek respect from people. In other to gain respect from people you need to create your own space and what I mean is getting your fan base that is all about your achievements and the position you hold, this will create more people attention to you. this is a rule book a lot of people don’t know yet but works like a charm.
In other to gain respect you must be powerful. In the world of great and powerful mind, you cannot be feeling weak and seek for a position with authority. As an individual you need to have a direct authority and charisma in you, which will help you gain respect from people.
6. GIVE RESPECT
You must be able to learn how to give respect to people in other to be respected. Most respected and influential people today are respectful to other people. Is only when you give respect to people that’s when you gain respect, just as the saying goes “what goes around, stays around”.
7. BODY STATURE
Physically, having a good body stature can give you a programmed respect from people automatic. Girls love to see a good looking and attractive man and bullies hate to see a muscular man. In other words, having a good body stature can give you validation from people.
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8. WALK DOMINANTLY
In other to seek respect from people you need to walk like a respected and attractive person. Ever seen a man or woman walked by and people stares at them in admiration, this is because they have built themselves to walk right and slowly in other to condition the minds of people to seek their validation.
9. SIT LIKE YOU’RE IN CHARGE
Every respected and influential person today obtain this position; sitting like your charge. You cannot be asking for validation from people when you are sitting like a kid, the primary way of getting people to respect you is sitting like you’re in charge.
HOW TO SIT LIKE YOU’RE IN CHARGE
- SIT UPRIGHT AND CHEST OUT.
- HANDS NEEDS TO BE CLOCKED TOGETHER AND LEAN ON ONE SIDE.
- LEGS SHOULD BE CROSSED (Girls cross their legs little bit by the side).
10. CONSISTENT GROWTH
People love to be around a person that consistently working hard and achieving his goals. In other words, to gain respect from people you need to grow up financially, physically and also mentally. From this act people will always seek to respect and value you as a person.
As a person you can gain respect from anybody irrespective of who you are, follow these ways of gaining respect from people and you will see yourself like a boss in no time.