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Understanding the signs and behavior of a manipulative partner in a relationship is very crucial because, it might be a controlling relationship. Change is very important when you’re in a relationship but when you seeing you are losing a lot from yourself or you are being drain emotionally, you have to come to a conclusion that you’re been manipulated from your partner to get what they want from you.
When a manipulative partner has used you the resources from you, they will leave you and start questioning you all the time, they will get angry at you for unnecessary reasons and you might just be surprised.
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Who is a manipulator?
This is someone maliciously takes advantage of people to get what they want in ways that are controlling and overpowering them in some way. Manipulation is a tricky way of a person using their power to get their desires from others.
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Why people manipulate
The main objective of a manipulator is them to get advantage, overpower and control of someone through emotional deceit.
Emotional manipulation can happen to you even when you don’t expect, that is what a manipulator does all the time to get through their victims.
How to deal with Manipulative Relationships
In a relationship your partner might be manipulating you in ways you might have not known but I will show you in this blog how you can get to deal with a manipulative relationship.
1. Understanding a manipulator
You need to know how to spot a manipulator in your relationship, this is good so you will have the upper hand to beat them at their own game. A manipulator has a certain behavior that might feel unusual to you.
If your guts are telling you that you are being manipulated, I think is time that you trust yourself so you can come up conscious to understand a manipulative partner and stand a chance to beat them.
2. Don’t strike back
It is important that when a manipulative partner is using their tactics to get to you, you shouldn’t follow through with it. They are super trained and accurate when it comes to feeding and getting information from you. It important that you don’t follow through with their games and be a victim because they know just how to strike you emotionally.
3. Set Boundaries
If you want to outsmart a manipulative person you should set boundaries. When you set boundaries, you are now in charge and in control of them. the moment they see any chances of getting into your person life they will twist your world till they are satisfied.
I know you being in a relationship with your partner, you will have to open up to certain things that goes on around you. But the moment you’re able to identify a manipulative partner in your relationship you should set boundaries and know what you feed them.
4. Learn to say NO
The moment you learn to say no to a manipulator you’re able to stand your ground and be defensive of yourself. The moment you say no to a manipulative partner they will know their boundaries in your life and never to cross it again. A single ‘No’ can save you from a lifetime of discomfort in your life and the future problem to come.
5. Avoid emotional drama
Avoiding talking to a manipulator can help save you from them getting into your skin. A manipulative partner can be good in many things and one of them they are most professional at is getting you emotional with them.
It could be they want something that might put you in bankruptcy, they will get their manipulative tears or charms to work on you because all they could think about is just themselves.
6. Be self-aware
One major way a manipulative partner can get to you is your lack of self-awareness. If you can’t take responsibility for yourself a manipulator is will to do that for you without you ever noticing the possible change, because of your trust towards them.
Being self-aware of the situations around your relationship can come a long way for you in your home, and not just that it keeps you in total comfort emotionally.
7. Be calm
Be calm and energize, in order to achieve you need to have time for your time away from work, you need to meditate always for clarity and eat health food. In most cases some you can come in worked up and can’t deal with the manipulator. The process of being calm can make you observe your manipulative partner which can save you a lot from future stress.
8. Outsmart them (be 2-steps ahead)
You can beat a manipulative partner when you’re two steps ahead of their plans. You need to outsmart them in their own game, you need to show them that you are the boss and that two can play this game. The moment they see that you are watchful and careful about what you do, say or feel they will eventually move on. In that case, you have beaten them in their own game.
9. Stay back as possible
Not every battle must be won when it comes to a manipulator. A manipulative partner can be so good at what they do and you might not even stand a chance with them. The best way to deal with them is to stay far back from them, I mean avoid them totally because it wouldn’t be good news at all.
Fighting a manipulative partner would make things worst even for you because you will be feeding them more of your weakness, getting deep into their plot which could make them succeed at manipulating you. So, stay back!
When you’re with a manipulative partner you should consider your next move carefully because the more you feed and show weaknesses, the more they stand a chance to use you. Also, you will have come to a conclusion with your manipulative partner if you should be together .The choices you make with your partner will determine your future together.
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